As your kids get older, they reach the age when they’re ready to enter higher education. This can be a tricky transitional period for the whole family, as your child is embarking on their first steps into adulthood and independence.
However, even though they’re less dependent on you than they once were, they will likely still need your help to get ready for university. Here are some ways to support your university-aged child.
Homeschooling and University
The first thing that universities will look at when going through applicants is the grades of potential students. There is a misconception that homeschooled students find it more difficult to get into university, but that isn’t the case.
Homeschooling is more popular than it once was, which means almost all universities in the UK accept homeschooled students. Yes, this includes Oxbridge. The most important thing is the grades and the qualifications.
Most universities prefer students with traditional, formal qualifications, such as A-Levels. Some degrees require these qualifications. However, other universities accept students according to UCAS points and may be willing to consider other, more flexible options.
It’s always important to do your research when selecting universities. A personal statement will always work in your child’s favor. If you use a personal statement writing service, then you can help your child to stand out from other applicants and create a good first impression.
Moving Away From Home
One of the most difficult transitions for any young adult is their move away from home. You can, and should, help your children to prepare for this well before they reach university age. As they grow up, teach them practical skills such as how to cook and clean.
With these practical skills, your children will be far better prepared for their move. They’ll be able to feed themselves and keep themselves healthy. As they get older, include lessons on budgeting. Help them to work out a university budget so they will understand just how much things cost.
Your children are about to learn the hard way that money makes the world go round, for better or for worse. Even if you cover some of their university expenses, they may have to support themselves to a degree. This doesn’t just require financial literacy, but it also requires an ability to manage their time.
The Emotional Side of Things
This kind of lifestyle change can be overwhelming, so it’s important to be there for your child. Remind them that, even if you’re at the other end of the country, you’re only a phone call away. Be approachable and listen when they come to you with concerns or questions.
On the other hand, it’s important to be willing to let go. This is the time in your child’s life when they have to stand on their own two feet and will likely go to their peers before their parents. They will make mistakes, but make sure that they know that you’re in their corner.
If you enjoyed this, check out my Do’s and Don’ts of Living With Other People At Uni and Top Tips For Students Preparing For University
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